When your partner doesn't do it for you.

Cosmo wrote:

And you know what I've found out... with women... the more you give... the more you get. That is... if you set up a base camp down in the happiest place on Earth... and stay there and do your job til her thighs slam together, popping you head like a loose grape, you will get a great blow job in return... not one of those 54 second lip service gestures of foreplay... i'm talking, The Real Thing. But, it pays to know what you are dong down there. You don't want to get the shoulder tap, like the one Joe Torre gives you because you've walked 4 straight and and can't the strike zone if you life depended on it... that is humiliation. Know the equipment and know how to use it.
Hint: Find the man in the raincoat at the front of the rowboat... he is the gatekeeper.
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Now, women will probably say... the more they give... the more that is expected. Which is true... most men are typically selfish a-holes when it comes to sex. Get me to the money shot... now, roll over to your side and go to sleep.
And just rolling up and sticking your pussy in his face won't do it... many guys will just say, "Get that thing outta my face!" Some guys believe that vaginas should be felt and not seen (and in no way, ever put in their mouths). They complain about how scary and alien some femalian genetalia looks (yet, fail to see how the penial protuberance looks like baby fucking 'Alien'). And I admit it... sometimes I have to get past the beef curtain down there... but, Hey... it's part of the job, right? I guess if you want oral sex from a guy... you just need to find us guys that love.
The rest of it is easy... sometimes you fuck... sometimes you get fucked. But, it's more fun if you both get your money's worth.
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Now... back to the basic question... if your partner ain't doing it for you (or to you)... what do you do?
I say, try to get them to try new things... if they refuse to change... that is a sure sign of selfishness... something that does not belong is a relationship. Find someone that wants you to be happier than they are. Sure, that's a tall order to fill.. but, it is kind of fun looking for them.
Good luck with that.

small town beck wrote:

Well I wonder if the guy( I assume it is a guy you mean, tish ) mentioned here is now posting somewhere that his girlfriend is like a starfish in bed?

Communication is key.

AmentsChick wrote:

My two cents? I couldn't be in a relationship if my honey didn't "do it for me". That being said...I would absolutely know way before the bedroom whether or not there was chemistry between us.

eyedclaar wrote:

If your partner doesn't do it for you, simply cut them up and feed them to the pigs. Just make sure the next "partner' knows what happened to the last one so they stay on their toes.