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  • SoonForgotten2
    SoonForgotten2 Posts: 2,245
    Sian-of-the-dead wrote:
    I can see what your saying but several posts disprove your theory :)

    As it's been said, everyone is different.

    I never said all men must be attracted to long hair or not to short hair. Of course there are always exceptions. It's the same with mens preference for breast size. Of course everyone is different. I'd never argue against that.

    For people to say that they find short hair attractive is fine and dandy, but that doesn't address the question as to why most men prefer long hair. At least I tried. :p
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  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    SoonForgotten2 wrote:
    I never said all men must be attracted to long hair or not to short hair. Of course there are always exceptions. It's the same with mens preference for breast size. Of course everyone is different. I'd never argue against that.

    For people to say that they find short hair attractive is fine and dandy, but that doesn't address the question as to why most men prefer long hair. At least I tried. :p

    You did... as did I. Agree to disagree? :)
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  • MrMerkinball
    MrMerkinball Posts: 1,978
    I LOVE girls with short hair.
  • SoonForgotten2
    SoonForgotten2 Posts: 2,245
    Sian-of-the-dead wrote:
    You did... as did I. Agree to disagree? :)

    Ha. Yeah, totally. The last thing I need is more grief right now. *waves white flag*
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  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    MrMerkinball wrote:
    I LOVE girls with short hair.

    Where were you 10 minutes ago when we were still arguing?! :p
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    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
  • SoonForgotten2
    SoonForgotten2 Posts: 2,245
    Sian-of-the-dead wrote:
    Where were you 10 minutes ago when we were still arguing?! :p

    As if you needed the help :p
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  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    SoonForgotten2 wrote:
    Ha. Yeah, totally. The last thing I need is more grief right now. *waves white flag*

    Hehe! agreed. *waves in response* :)

    This shoulda been a poll though, methinks...
    SoonForgotten2 wrote:
    As if you needed the help :p

    True... true... :p
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    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
  • MrMerkinball
    MrMerkinball Posts: 1,978
    Sian-of-the-dead wrote:
    Where were you 10 minutes ago when we were still arguing?! :p
    With my wife, after making her cut her hair ;)
  • pjhawks
    pjhawks Posts: 12,913
    SoonForgotten2 wrote:
    God, this topic... see here's the thing about us guys... for the most part, we're straight. Which means were are biologically attracted to women. For me this means, beyond the other person having a vagina, femininity. I think short hair on a woman can reduce that, depending on the woman in question, greatly. Now some women can pull it off and make it look really good while retaining all their femininity. Note that, this isn't soley limited to a hair issue, I have never found Kate Moss attractive because she has the body of a young boy (well, never mind her general mingin'ness).

    To me, as a man, anything leaning towards androgeny in a woman is not attractive. If they like to have short-hair, well all the power to them, but personally, I find it a turn-off. And really, I think it's just a matter of nature.

    for the most part I think this post sums it up - or at least my feelings on the subject.
  • SoonForgotten2
    SoonForgotten2 Posts: 2,245
    pjhawks wrote:
    for the most part I think this post sums it up - or at least my feelings on the subject.

    Get ready to duck then...
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  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    When I met my husband I had short hair, and he told me to never grow it out because it was so cute short.. then I did grow it out, and as of now, its extremely long. It's more then halfway down my back. And he says to never cut it.. hahaha.. I guess he likes it either way!
  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    SoonForgotten2 wrote:
    Get ready to duck then...
    Ah no... I've said all I needed to say. I'm not one for repeating myself ;)
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    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
  • SoonForgotten2
    SoonForgotten2 Posts: 2,245
    Sian-of-the-dead wrote:
    Ah no... I've said all I needed to say. I'm not one for repeating myself ;)

    I just try to spare others my misfortune when I can. :D

    Life's so much easier in AMT. :p
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  • battan1120
    battan1120 Posts: 310
    I don't care if its short,as long as she has a nice rack ,shaves her legs & pits & takes care of herself.
    The bus came by and I got on!!!!!
  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    urbanhippie wrote:
    I totally get what J is saying. As a ragingly heterosexual woman, I still find it easy to appreciate beauty in other women. According to 'evolution' then I should find 'masculine' women more attractive, but the women I find most beautiful generally have long hair and exceptionally beautiful, curvy, feminine bodies.
    Exactly, and don't get me wrong, I like feminine women too, I'm not exclusively all about short-haired, androgynous girls :p I sometimes find girls with boyish qualities attractive, not girls that look like feminine men.
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  • xscorcho
    xscorcho Posts: 409
    SoonForgotten2 wrote:
    Get ready to duck then...
    lol best post in the thread!
  • RolandTD20Kdrummer
    RolandTD20Kdrummer Posts: 13,066
    short?...heck....shave it....
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  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    wow, I didn't think a question like this would spark an argument:D
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  • walkunafraid
    walkunafraid Posts: 2,655
    Not trying to throw fuel on the fire, but I prefer medium length hair.

    Hair that is too short just doesn't look good on *most* girls (though I agree that some can wear it well).

    Hair that is too long is just kind of gross to me.

    But nice, straight or curly medium length hair -- up to the shoulders or thereabouts --does it for me.
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  • wolfbear
    wolfbear Posts: 3,965
    walkunafraid wrote:
    Not trying to throw fuel on the fire, but I prefer medium length hair.

    Hair that is too short just doesn't look good on *most* girls (though I agree that some can wear it well).

    Hair that is too long is just kind of gross to me.

    But nice, straight or curly medium length hair -- up to the shoulders or thereabouts --does it for me.
    I agree with you. Most men and women to me look best in medium lengths. Of course there are many exceptions, but in general I think this is true. My husband likes long hair, but mine doesn't grow long. I like long hair on men, but his goes quite berzerk when grown long. So we compromise with what looks best on us. :)
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