I know this is a double standard but.....

acoustic guy · August 2008

comebackgirl wrote:

However, I don't think you should be debated or judged - debating the topic is a whole other story.

I agree.

acoustic guy · August 2008

genie wrote:

bad publicity can be a good publicity too

LOL hell yea, I have not seen you here in a while. How are things Jenie?

genie · August 2008

acoustic guy wrote:

I am not into that. That is not a marriage. Way fucking funny that you think I would be into that b/c of me saying men should be able to have many women. Hahaha! WTF? Twisted thoughts in your head people.

thank you, i am twisted and said it in other threads before, and i'm only young too...however i've learned sometimes the things you think you'll never do/or never like........and then when you eventually experience them you find out that you enjoy those things.....i'm just giving you some kinky ideas that's all

acoustic guy · August 2008

genie wrote:

thank you, i am twisted and said it in other threads before, and i'm only young too...however i've learned sometimes the things you think you'll never do/or never like........and then when you eventually experience them you find out that you enjoy those things.....i'm just giving you some kinky ideas that's all

I hope that does not mean drugs. Trust me, stay away. lol...but really.

genie · August 2008

acoustic guy wrote:

LOL hell yea, I have not seen you here in a while. How are things Jenie?

i'm ok, however it's genie not Jenie

just been working like mad and going out like mad as well, i'm enjoying my day staying in at home today

catch22 · August 2008

Sian-of-the-dead wrote:

wow... that's quite something to say to someone you don't know.

Here, ask yourself, if you'd been on this board more than a month, would you really be saying that?

Anyone who's spent anything more than a couple of months on here know that Dave and myself are together. We're not married and certainly not just friends.

Do some research before you write sweeping posts in future.

man, i even put the smiley in and still people get all bent outta shape. i guess the "i respect women so much more than most guys" act does it for ya?

acoustic guy · August 2008

catch22 wrote:

man, i even put the smiley in and still people get all bent outta shape. i guess the "i respect women so much more than most guys" act does it for ya?

LMAO!

acoustic guy · August 2008

genie wrote:

i'm ok, however it's genie not Jenie just been working like mad and going out like mad as well, i'm enjoying my day staying in at home today

hahaha sorry girl.

genie · August 2008

acoustic guy wrote:

I hope that does not mean drugs. Trust me, stay away. lol...but really.

nah, i'm wise enough to know not to fool around with any serious drugs, i was literally talking about sex and kinky things, because with sex you know whatever it is, it's not going to kill you but you also know that you wouldn't be into the sort of stuff that you're now if you hadn't had some kinky-minded exes. just saying my ex boyfriends had a bit of an impact into my sexuality, and i don't know whether to like them for that or not!

Sian-of-the-dead · August 2008

Acoustic guy - I'm not gonna call you an asshole or get insulting and personal, i'm just gonna give my opinion on this. You can say what you like but I can't let this go without getting my 2 cents in.

I've read the posts that you've made in this thread. I'll admit, they've made my blood boil. I don't understand how you think you can speak for all men?

I've known plenty of men who have been happily in relationships and/or married for years and not once even indulged the thought of fucking as many women as possible. Yes, amazingly enough, these people do exist.
I know you're a hot blooded male or whatever :rolleyes: but posting about cheating on your wife on a public internet message board seems a little obnoxious. It's like taunting her without her knowing, like rubbing salt into the wound. Many women across the world are insecure enough about themselves without guys like you writing about how "as great as my wife is, I wanna bang me some new pussy huh huh huh...". Ask yourself, honestly how you think your wife would react if she read some of the things you've written?
I'm not gonna accuse you of anything, at the end of the day, I don't know you apart from this internet persona you portray but I am gonna say that I'm disappointed that you think a subject like this can be "light hearted and funny". Many people's relationships are destroyed by things like this.
I can honestly say that were Dave to write a thread like this and I found it, I would be devestated. I'd be asking many questions and my self esteem would hit rock bottom... you certainly wouldn't just be on the couch for a week.

As for the men having hardcore no strings sex outside of marriage and women not? C'mon... I know you said double standards but fuck man, that's ridiculous. I can only assume that you said that because you know how you'd react if you found your wife having thoughts like this. You say you're a good husband but you post things like this? Not exactly 'good husband' material in my eyes... besides, shouldn't it be your wife who decides if you're a good husband or not?

I'm hoping that you love your wife dearly and that you probably did write this thread as a joke but it now seems to me that you've said too much and you can't back track for fear of losing face. Now, I don't know if you wrote this because you're considering cheating on your wife or if you were just throwing an idea in the melting pot to see how people's would react... whichever it is, it's not funny.

I can pretty much guess how you're gonna react, so laugh away. But at least i'm safe in the knowledge that I know I wouldn't post about my husband or marriage like this and that I have no issues within my relationship.

I suggest you start talking to your wife.

Sian-of-the-dead · August 2008

catch22 wrote:

man, i even put the smiley in and still people get all bent outta shape. i guess the "i respect women so much more than most guys" act does it for ya?

I'm sorry but the "I'm gonna treat you like shite and disrespect you and our relationship" act doesn't do it for me, no. Been there, done that.
Audiodave's a breath of fresh air, trust me. Besides, it's not a respect for women more than men, it's a respect for people who have respect for themselves and the relationships they have within this world.

When will people learn, smilies don't always make a post light hearted.

Jeremy1012 · August 2008

Sian-of-the-dead wrote:

Acoustic guy - I'm not gonna call you an asshole or get insulting and personal, i'm just gonna give my opinion on this. You can say what you like but I can't let this go without getting my 2 cents in.

I've read the posts that you've made in this thread. I'll admit, they've made my blood boil. I don't understand how you think you can speak for all men? I've known plenty of men who have been happily in relationships and/or married for years and not once even indulged the thought of fucking as many women as possible. Yes, amazingly enough, these people do exist.
I know you're a hot blooded male or whatever :rolleyes: but posting about cheating on your wife on a public internet message board seems a little obnoxious. It's like taunting her without her knowing, like rubbing salt into the wound. Many women across the world are insecure enough about themselves without guys like you writing about how "as great as my wife is, I wanna bang me some new pussy huh huh huh...". Ask yourself, honestly how you think your wife would react if she read some of the things you've written?
I'm not gonna accuse you of anything, at the end of the day, I don't know you apart from this internet persona you portray but I am gonna say that I'm disappointed that you think a subject like this can be "light hearted and funny". Many people's relationships are destroyed by things like this.
I can honestly say that were Dave to write a thread like this and I found it, I would be devestated. I'd be asking many questions and my self esteem would hit rock bottom... you certainly wouldn't just be on the couch for a week.

As for the men having hardcore no strings sex outside of marriage and women not? C'mon... I know you said double standards but fuck man, that's ridiculous. I can only assume that you said that because you know how you'd react if you found your wife having thoughts like this. You say you're a good husband but you post things like this? Not exactly 'good husband' material in my eyes... besides, shouldn't it be your wife who decides if you're a good husband or not?

I'm hoping that you love your wife dearly and that you probably did write this thread as a joke but it now seems to me that you've said too much and you can't back track for fear of losing face. Now, I don't know if you wrote this because you're considering cheating on your wife or if you were just throwing an idea in the melting pot to see how people's would react... whichever it is, it's not funny.

I can pretty much guess how you're gonna react, so laugh away. But at least i'm safe in the knowledge that I know I wouldn't post about my husband or marriage like this and that I have no issues within my relationship.

I suggest you start talking to your wife.

I expect a classic "tail between legs" response from AG some time soon.

Good for you Sian

acoustic guy · August 2008

opps give me a minute to respond to that one.

catch22 · August 2008

Sian-of-the-dead wrote:

I'm sorry but the "I'm gonna treat you like shite and disrespect you and our relationship" act doesn't do it for me, no. Been there, done that.
Audiodave's a breath of fresh air, trust me. Besides, it's not a respect for women more than men, it's a respect for people who have respect for themselves and the relationships they have within this world.

When will people learn, smilies don't always make a post light hearted.

when will people learn that taking themselves and life so seriously is a huge drag.

acoustic guy · August 2008

Sian-of-the-dead wrote:

Acoustic guy - I'm not gonna call you an asshole or get insulting and personal, i'm just gonna give my opinion on this. You can say what you like but I can't let this go without getting my 2 cents in.

I've read the posts that you've made in this thread. I'll admit, they've made my blood boil. I don't understand how you think you can speak for all men? I've known plenty of men who have been happily in relationships and/or married for years and not once even indulged the thought of fucking as many women as possible. Yes, amazingly enough, these people do exist.
I know you're a hot blooded male or whatever :rolleyes: but posting about cheating on your wife on a public internet message board seems a little obnoxious. It's like taunting her without her knowing, like rubbing salt into the wound. Many women across the world are insecure enough about themselves without guys like you writing about how "as great as my wife is, I wanna bang me some new pussy huh huh huh...". Ask yourself, honestly how you think your wife would react if she read some of the things you've written?
I'm not gonna accuse you of anything, at the end of the day, I don't know you apart from this internet persona you portray but I am gonna say that I'm disappointed that you think a subject like this can be "light hearted and funny". Many people's relationships are destroyed by things like this.
I can honestly say that were Dave to write a thread like this and I found it, I would be devestated. I'd be asking many questions and my self esteem would hit rock bottom... you certainly wouldn't just be on the couch for a week.

As for the men having hardcore no strings sex outside of marriage and women not? C'mon... I know you said double standards but fuck man, that's ridiculous. I can only assume that you said that because you know how you'd react if you found your wife having thoughts like this. You say you're a good husband but you post things like this? Not exactly 'good husband' material in my eyes... besides, shouldn't it be your wife who decides if you're a good husband or not?

I'm hoping that you love your wife dearly and that you probably did write this thread as a joke but it now seems to me that you've said too much and you can't back track for fear of losing face. Now, I don't know if you wrote this because you're considering cheating on your wife or if you were just throwing an idea in the melting pot to see how people's would react... whichever it is, it's not funny.

I can pretty much guess how you're gonna react, so laugh away. But at least i'm safe in the knowledge that I know I wouldn't post about my husband or marriage like this and that I have no issues within my relationship.

I suggest you start talking to your wife.

Oh where do I start?
First, you never once had a sexual thought about another man since you have been with Dave? ..................Bullshit! Were human. Total bullshit.

Second, This topic makes women insecure? Not my problem b/c they have insecurities and trust issues with their hubby. My wife trusts me. She knows who she married. She is the one for me b/c she is the only ione who can keep me inline. We all have been worried about being cheated on one time or another. I never once said I wanna cheat nor will I. Get it right if you are gonna bash me okay?

Third,
I am not backtracking at all. This all started b/c I said men should be able to have many women. Now I am a cheater and a bad husband? Give me a break please. If I wanna cheat on my wife you think I would ask peoples advise on the matter first? Hahahahahahaha.....okay.

Its bizzare to me that you are upset b/c I started this topic. If you READ it again, it is in a joking way for fun. I HAVE to use a smiley for it be be silly? I am not the dictator here. I am not gonna make a rule in America that all men shouls sleep with many women don't worry I am not gnna start a revolution here. I am sure Dave will still be the great guy you know him to be after tis is all done with.
Please lighten up man oh man.

acoustic guy · August 2008

Jeremy1012 wrote:

I expect a classic "tail between legs" response from AG some time soon.

Good for you Sian

Pfft please......

chadwick · August 2008

Originally Posted by audiodave
No. No it isn't. Believe it or not, some men actually have respect for women. A novel concept, I know.

And before you jump to your defense by saying that you're joking, don't bother. We both know that you're serious about this, and while you may only be talking about it at the moment, if you really believe in this BS that you've written, you really can't be far away from acting on it.

So, cheating on your girlfriend takes balls does it? If you cheat on every girlfriend you have then you don't deserve the balls you were born with and should have them surgically removed. I'm sure the women you cheat on would like to get their hands on them (I know, you didn't cheat on them, but just saying you wish you had is disgusting enough). And if you cheat on EVERY girlfriend, and then get married, that means you cheated on the woman you married. Just because you have a piece of paper that says your married, all of a sudden it becomes wrong to cheat? A marriage certificate shouldn't be the reason you don't cheat. Love and respect for the woman you're with should, and you can have that without that little piece of paper. If you wanted to be able to sleep with a load of different women, why did you get married?

I agree with chadwick. You can't have much respect for your wife to come on here and talk about this kind of thing. I'd be interested to see what she would say if she read it, or if she knew you thought you should be allowed to sleep with as many women as you want while she has to stay faithful.

I love the way people think they can speak for an entire gender. You may want to fuck everything that moves, but not every man does. I'm not denying that some men MAY want this, but not all of them. Like I said earlier, some men have respect for women and for the relationship they are in. There's only one person here who is full of shit and that's you.

Why should men be allowed to sleep with other women? Because they can have sex without forming an emotional attachment? You may be able to do so, but it doesn't mean all men are the same. And while some women may NOT be able to sleep with a man without forming an emotional attachment, i'm sure they are plenty of women who can do this.

You, and by the look of it a lot of other people, may seem to think this is a harmless and fun thread, but I think it's very disrespectful to your wife and your marriage to come onto a message board and post this kind of thing. Cover it up by saying you're joking if you must, but I don't buy it. I only hope that Mrs acoustic guy decides to take a look on the PJ forums and see just what her husband has been saying.
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love it.
and the fact you used my name as part of your opinion.
i think i have a new buddy.
we share a mutual stance.
nicely done.

however, you have been a bit calmer than myself.
good for you.
i guess i let the side of me that houses a bad attitude do some communicating in this thread.
i am sorry if i have offended any of you with my harshness.

Jeremy1012 · August 2008

Dude, quit being selective with the things you respond to. As Sian pointed out, you do NOT speak for all men. Having a sexual thought is one thing but but saying that ALL guys want to go out fucking a slew of different women for no reason other than satisfying some carnal thirst sounds more like a man desperately clutching at straws to make himself feel better about his insecurities and the fact that he doesn't feel enough of a man unless he's able to get his pick of women at all times.

Also, stop telling people to lighten up. If your posts in this thread were meant as a joke, you'd have stopped defending them a long time ago. You mean every word and you're just trying to claw back some respect from people here because, deep down, you're probably a decent guy and this whole thread has woefully misfired.

You're perfectly within your rights to want a polygamous marriage, just don't lump a whole gender into your "complex analyses" of the libido to strengthen your cause, ok? Thanks :cool:

catch22 · August 2008

Jeremy1012 wrote:

Dude, quit being selective with the things you respond to. As Sian pointed out, you do NOT speak for all men. Having a sexual thought is one thing but but saying that ALL guys want to go out fucking a slew of different women for no reason other than satisfying some carnal thirst sounds more like a man desperately clutching at straws to make himself feel better about his insecurities and the fact that he doesn't feel enough of a man unless he's able to get his pick of women at all times.

Also, stop telling people to lighten up. If your posts in this thread were meant as a joke, you'd have stopped defending them a long time ago. You mean every word and you're just trying to claw back some respect from people here because, deep down, you're probably a decent guy and this whole thread has woefully misfired.

You're perfectly within your rights to want a polygamous marriage, just don't lump a whole gender into your complex analyses of the libido to strengthen your cause, ok? Thanks :cool:

maybe the point was just to make light of the fact that we all want to believe us and our partners are pure as the driven snow, but, in fact, we all have our urges and we should acknowledge them and deal with them and have some fun with them rather than try to repress them and pretend they don't exist?

genie · August 2008

catch22 wrote:

maybe the point was just to make light of the fact that we all want to believe us and our partners are pure as the driven snow, but, in fact, we all have our urges and we should acknowledge them and deal with them and have some fun with them rather than try to repress them and pretend they don't exist?

amen to that

I know this is a double standard but.....

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