I know this is a double standard but.....

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  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    ~Hollywood Madam~ wrote:
    I admire that in a man.
    I have seen the best of both worlds; men that can openly say what they want and feel.
    Men that do not know HOW to stand up for themselves and say what they feel.
    Thank your dad and grandpa for me because there needs to be more guys like you ;)


    of course their does
    i been tryin to tell ppl this for yrs ;)
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    my first post in this thread:
    decides2dream wrote:
    and all many of us are saying is SURE! but the flipside arrangement for women too. why should the husband's have all the fun and variety? ;) ALL get to play, or no game. simple. :)

    ~Hollywood Madam~ wrote:
    Maybe he thinks you are lecturing him because your posts are always very long winded & in a "know it all" sense. I have yet to see a simple "short & sweet" post by you.
    If you all are discussing the topic and can defend YOURSELVES at certain points, why can't acoustic guy?
    Some of the posts have stated they don't care what he does. Clearly some of you DO give a shit because you are telling him he is this and that for even mentioning sleeping with other women.
    I applaud ag for thinking out loud and sharing it here.
    That IS what you do on a "message board" isn't it?




    too long-winded and lecturing for ya? i have posted MANY posts in here...some long, some short...and everything in between. i have not once said he 'is this or that'...at all. and i have already offered my 'support' for men sleeping with other women, women to sleep with other men...whatever ANYone wants to do....but if they have a spouse, i personally believe they need to be informed and cool with it. crazy respect for those you love thing i have. :p


    and you're right...it IS what you do on a message board. so is what I do. thanks for the tips tho!



    btw - i see no need to 'defend' myself...nor anyone themselves. as ever, differing perspectives.....
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • Drowned Out
    Drowned Out Posts: 6,056
    I know this is a double standard, but I'm a single guy and should bang as many women as possible, cause that's the guy thing to do...single women should resist the urge to have casual sex, because they can get pregnant, and it makes them less desirable to potential suitors.

    ;)


    (thread's losing momentum)
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    ~Hollywood Madam~ wrote:
    I admire that in a man.
    I have seen the best of both worlds; men that can openly say what they want and feel.
    Men that do not know HOW to stand up for themselves and say what they feel.
    Thank your dad and grandpa for me because there needs to be more guys like you ;)

    i forgot my manners some how.
    thank you for the statement.

    (trying to leave now, quit pulling me back in here dammit)
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    Drowned Out wrote:
    I know this is a double standard, but I'm a single guy and should bang as many women as possible, cause that's the guy thing to do...single women should resist the urge to have casual sex, because they can get pregnant, and it makes them less desirable to potential suitors.




    (thread's losing momentum)



    :D


    ooooooooooooooooooooo, here's a GREAT thread for you!
    http://forums.pearljam.com/showthread.php?t=300560
    it's been GREAT fun, and touches on that very topic........;)


    maybe losing momentum is the problem in a nutshell. :p



    btw - who would you be banging...married women?! :eek: :D
    just askin'......
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • ~Hollywood Madam~
    ~Hollywood Madam~ Posts: 69
    chadwick wrote:
    i forgot my manners some how.
    thank you for the statement.

    (trying to leave now, quit pulling me back in here dammit)

    Okay I will now pull you back over to ME instead ;)
    Kidding. You are a good sport chadwick~
    so boys......where do you want me?
  • ~Hollywood Madam~
    ~Hollywood Madam~ Posts: 69
    Drowned Out wrote:
    I know this is a double standard, but I'm a single guy and should bang as many women as possible, cause that's the guy thing to do...single women should resist the urge to have casual sex, because they can get pregnant, and it makes them less desirable to potential suitors.

    ;)


    (thread's losing momentum)

    Let the bangin' begin! ;)
    As a very sexually active "woman" I agree with the getting pregnant part. Protection is always first.
    No matter HOW MUCH you want to rip a guys pants off and let him stick you.
    I find it very weird that some men are attracted to pregnant women!
    I have also heard that "pregnant" girls means they put out!
    It is a twisted world we play in~
    so boys......where do you want me?
  • Drowned Out
    Drowned Out Posts: 6,056
    decides2dream wrote:
    :D


    ooooooooooooooooooooo, here's a GREAT thread for you!
    http://forums.pearljam.com/showthread.php?t=300560
    it's been GREAT fun, and touches on that very topic........;)


    maybe losing momentum is the problem in a nutshell. :p
    I don't touch the abortion threads, thanks :D
    I've posted once in this thread...and it was kind of along the momentum lines...
    It's been an amusing read anyway.

    I kinda feel for ag being judged on a little bit of personal info, and a couple fun generalizations...I'm sure he could give more detail to give others a better understanding of what's going on in his marriage...but he'd be crucified for that too.

    On the open marriage topic...I said it here last time...I know what it would consist of for me: getting drunk with friends while my wife slept around...I'm single and I can't get laid; I can't imagine a lot of women jumping at a night with open-marriage-guy :D
  • Drowned Out
    Drowned Out Posts: 6,056
    ~Hollywood Madam~ wrote:
    Let the bangin' begin! ;)
    As a very sexually active "woman" I agree with the getting pregnant part. Protection is always first.
    No matter HOW MUCH you want to rip a guys pants off and let him stick you.
    I find it very weird that some men are attracted to pregnant women!
    I have also heard that "pregnant" girls means they put out!
    It is a twisted world we play in~

    You heard pregnant chicks put out? fuck, i thought that was just a rumour. I've gotta find someone to sign up for Lamaze with, stat ;)

    I find the pregnancy fetish weird too...it's cute for a while, then it's all cankles and bitching ;) *ducks* Seriously tho...I was scared of breastmilk. That was not my thing....and I consider myself very hard to offend :D
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    ~Hollywood Madam~ wrote:
    Okay I will now pull you back over to ME instead ;)
    Kidding. You are a good sport chadwick~


    well fuck

    maybe this entire issue hits home just a bit to close for my liking.
    parents divorced, cheating.
    all my friends, lives ruined=cheating.
    no communication and selfish sexual bullshit = cost them all a lifetime of headaches and greef..

    screw that noise..

    i got a job @ a really young age to help my mom out with bills
    because dad thought it was a good idea to run around which lead to divorce..quality times..

    dad (dead now) was still one hell of a good man, just an idiot sometimes..
    life isn't a cake walk that's a fuckin fact.
    it may be just the internet but some of us do take it a bit serious sometimes.

    i am done here..that is a fact
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    decides2dream wrote:
    :D


    ooooooooooooooooooooo, here's a GREAT thread for you!
    http://forums.pearljam.com/showthread.php?t=300560
    it's been GREAT fun, and touches on that very topic........;)
    quote]


    :D
  • gabers
    gabers Posts: 2,787
    I guess we need to go with all non controversal topics here. Save 'em for the Moving Train. This one got way out of hand. Who likes peanut butter cups?!
  • Touchofgray16
    Touchofgray16 Posts: 639
    gabers wrote:
    I guess we need to go with all non controversal topics here. Save 'em for the Moving Train. This one got way out of hand. Who likes peanut butter cups?!

    I love peanut butter cups but not Reese's Pieces. Weird, huh?
    "Tweet"

    "Chirp"
  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    DAMMMN!!! This thread still lives?! :eek:
    Whats the final word?
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  • Collin
    Collin Posts: 4,931
    decides2dream wrote:
    well, i am not going to go back and quote her post, but MY understanding of her saying 'talk ALL about it'...she was referring to telling her ALL about the one particular incident, the hot chick on the subway...and was not actually referencing to tell ALL about every, single sexual fantasy. might be my incorrect inference..or yours...but i think it may be yours. ;)

    I thought she meant talk all about your fantasies (plural) and just cited one example to keep her post concise. Citing all possible example would take several posts.

    Either way, even if she meant all of the fantasies and she's cool with it... It's none of my business. But for a moment there it seemed every girl was totally cool with hearing ALL (my incorrect inference) the fantasies about other girls. I just thought that wasn't very realistic. And apparently it isn't.
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  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    so what's this thread about?
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    dunkman wrote:
    so what's this thread about?

    S-E-X. and married guys wanting what they cant have, i believe.
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    catefrances wrote:
    S-E-X and married guys wanting what they cant have, i believe.

    S-E-X .... sounds even better since you spelled it out ;)

    and what they cant have... is it to keep their own incomes? to go the pub on a saturday with their friends and not get earache about it? to watch a sponsored 24-hour lapdanceathon for free?
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    dunkman wrote:
    S-E-X .... sounds even better since you spelled it out ;)

    and what they cant have... is it to keep their own incomes? to go the pub on a saturday with their friends and not get earache about it? to watch a sponsored 24-hour lapdanceathon for free?

    yes dunk thats all of it right there. :p:)
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    catefrances wrote:
    yes dunk thats all of it right there. :p:)


    its a skill i admit... ;):D
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.

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