How Often Does Your 'Partner' Initiate Sex?

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  • StateOfLoveBoatCptn.
    StateOfLoveBoatCptn. Posts: 904
    well up until a recent change in status...it was a couple times a day. yes it was a long distance thing but still...couldn't complain :D
  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    THOSE are the positives,, but lets not forget the negatives

    Negatives--like having you for a boyfriend? Look, no one is perfect ;)..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    StateOfLoveBoatCptn. wrote:
    well up until a recent change in status...it was a couple times a day. yes it was a long distance thing but still...couldn't complain :D

    :confused: um..how is that possible...did you teleport yourselves?
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • StateOfLoveBoatCptn.
    StateOfLoveBoatCptn. Posts: 904
    libragirl wrote:
    :confused: um..how is that possible...did you teleport yourselves?
    well it was long distance in the fact we were 350 miles apart and only saw each other every couple/few weeks
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    :D

    Have you seen Flight of the Conchords? I was just watching the episode about the threesome this afternoon. Funniest thing ever.

    I haven't seen that episode...I need to catch it.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    StateOfLoveBoatCptn. wrote:
    well it was long distance in the fact we were 350 miles apart and only saw each other every couple/few weeks

    oh! sorry i read that wrong...well for me it was every six months. Mine's well not even bother...not that sex is that important to me.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    StateOfLoveBoatCptn. wrote:
    well it was long distance in the fact we were 350 miles apart and only saw each other every couple/few weeks
    Ahhhh...that 'together at last feeling'. One of the BEST things about a long distance relationship ;)
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  • StateOfLoveBoatCptn.
    StateOfLoveBoatCptn. Posts: 904
    urbanhippie wrote:
    Ahhhh...that 'together at last feeling'. One of the BEST things about a long distance relationship ;)
    one of the FEW good things about a long distance relationship, hence the 'change in status'. But yes, there were some fun mornings, afternoons, nights, early mornings...lol
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    urbanhippie wrote:
    Ahhhh...that 'together at last feeling'. One of the BEST things about a long distance relationship ;)

    I was wondering what you'd say in here... :p

    *runs away*
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  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    Steve Dunne wrote:
    ok now are we talking once, twice a week? month? just curious to see how deprived i am in comparison to others.


    if you're getting it, even if you have to initiate 99% of the time, you aren't deprived. :) i'm a very proactive woman. nuff said. :D
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    One of us initiates at least twice a day. We're probably 50/50 in terms of who initiates. Keeps me satisfied :D
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    decides2dream wrote:
    i'm a very proactive woman. nuff said. :D
    Pro-active..... I like it :D
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  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    urbanhippie wrote:
    Pro-active..... I like it :D

    So do I..... :)
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    urbanhippie wrote:
    Pro-active..... I like it :D


    have to go for what you want. :D




    comebackgirl....talk to me after you actually live together 365 days a year, for a few years. :D ahhhh wait, you're with a 23 year old? forget it........:p i'll rephrase, wait until he's in his 30s, hahahaha. i think distance and time away make EVERYthing steamier. not that it can't be regularly of course, but there's something *more*...that whole distance makes the heart grow fonder, and the libido stronger. ;)
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    decides2dream wrote:
    have to go for what you want. :D




    comebackgirl....talk to me after you actually live together 365 days a year, for a few years. :D ahhhh wait, you're with a 23 year old? forget it........:p i'll rephrase, wait until he's in his 30s, hahahaha. i think distance and time away make EVERYthing steamier. not that it can't be regularly of course, but there's something *more*...that whole distance makes the heart grow fonder, and the libido stronger. ;)
    I keep asking him if he'll still be like this in his 30's...he better be! :D

    BTW - it's 2x a day even when we're apart...it just has to take a different form by necessity but it's still damn good!
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • HOOKER
    HOOKER Posts: 1,443
    libragirl wrote:
    hmmm....I guess when the thread gets long enough..the insinuations and innuendos get a bit too R rated..but yeah let's talk about pot all we want...hmmm...i just thought of a good thread...

    for thread integrity: it's been months since I got any loving.

    I know how you feel ;
    Nice to know you.
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    comebackgirl wrote:
    I keep asking him if he'll still be like this in his 30's...he better be! :D

    BTW - it's 2x a day even when we're apart...it just has to take a different form by necessity but it's still damn good!



    none the less.....i stand by my statement. ;)
    and hey, i personally don't think it's a bad thing. quality, quantity, both...whatever.....as long as it happens and you're both happy and satisfied with whatever the frequency, then it's all good.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    comebackgirl wrote:
    I keep asking him if he'll still be like this in his 30's...he better be! :D

    BTW - it's 2x a day even when we're apart...it just has to take a different form by necessity but it's still damn good!
    I'm keeping my fingers crossed for that too... :p

    And there's nothing wrong with 'a different form' ;)... whatever floats your boat and makes being apart easier to bear :)
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  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    decides2dream wrote:
    none the less.....i stand by my statement. ;)
    and hey, i personally don't think it's a bad thing. quality, quantity, both...whatever.....as long as it happens and you're both happy and satisfied with whatever the frequency, then it's all good.
    I made him sign a contract agreeing that he won't slack off down the road :p

    I agree...whether it's 2x per day, 2x per week or 2x per month (the horror!) :eek: :p if both partners are satisfied and fulfilled it doesn't matter. Fortunately we're on the same page...for now at least!
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    urbanhippie wrote:
    I'm keeping my fingers crossed for that too... :p

    And there's nothing wrong with 'a different form' ;)... whatever floats your boat and makes being apart easier to bear :)
    you gotta bridge the distance somehow ;)
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)

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