"It's refuted a lot of gender stereotypes..."

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  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    soulsinging wrote:
    interesting. becos i've heard that child-birth, women's sex drive plummets. maybe only single or childless women do that.

    yeah ... that varies from women to women ... i've slept with women with children and their appetite seems to coincide with their age ...
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    polaris wrote:
    yeah ... that varies from women to women ... i've slept with women with children and their appetite seems to coincide with their age ...

    figures, when they're at their peak of sex appeal and looking their hottest, they don't want you to touch them. but once they get to the point where the last thing you wanna do is bury your face in those wrinkles, suddenly they want you all the time.
  • VictoryGin
    VictoryGin Posts: 1,207
    polaris wrote:
    yeah ... that varies from women to women ... i've slept with women with children and their appetite seems to coincide with their age ...

    you're so smart. it's no wonder you get all the ladies. :)
    if you wanna be a friend of mine
    cross the river to the eastside
  • VictoryGin
    VictoryGin Posts: 1,207
    soulsinging wrote:
    figures, when they're at their peak of sex appeal and looking their hottest, they don't want you to touch them. but once they get to the point where the last thing you wanna do is bury your face in those wrinkles, suddenly they want you all the time.

    uh, not with that attitude.
    if you wanna be a friend of mine
    cross the river to the eastside
  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    soulsinging wrote:
    figures, when they're at their peak of sex appeal and looking their hottest, they don't want you to touch them. but once they get to the point where the last thing you wanna do is bury your face in those wrinkles, suddenly they want you all the time.

    i find sex appeal in the energy a woman gives off and in confidence ... looks are subjective for the most part ... sexual energy goes well beyond looks ... the woman i am sleeping with now feels sexy to herself and her vibe is very appealing ...
  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    VictoryGin wrote:
    you're so smart. it's no wonder you get all the ladies. :)

    i would give it all up for a shot at you ... ;)
  • CorporateWhore
    CorporateWhore Posts: 1,890
    soulsinging wrote:
    figures, when they're at their peak of sex appeal and looking their hottest, they don't want you to touch them. but once they get to the point where the last thing you wanna do is bury your face in those wrinkles, suddenly they want you all the time.

    I don't know, my girlfriend and I don't have sex but she definitely likes to be touched...

    Is it uncommon for younger girls to masturbate?
    All I know is that to see, and not to speak, would be the great betrayal.
    -Enoch Powell
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    polaris wrote:
    i find sex appeal in the energy a woman gives off and in confidence ... looks are subjective for the most part ... sexual energy goes well beyond looks ... the woman i am sleeping with now feels sexy to herself and her vibe is very appealing ...

    yeah well, im stuck with neither. so maybe im just pissed off.
  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    CorporateWhore wrote:
    I don't know, my girlfriend and I don't have sex but she definitely likes to be touched...

    Is it uncommon for younger girls to masturbate?

    women need to learn to masturbate - it gets them in touch with their own sexuality and its easier for them to orgasm when they are better connected with their body ...

    although in your case - i don't know what to say ... i would find it difficult myself ...
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    CorporateWhore wrote:
    I don't know, my girlfriend and I don't have sex but she definitely likes to be touched...

    Is it uncommon for younger girls to masturbate?

    uncommon? no. but less do than guys. ive dated 2 girls in a row who claim to have never done it and never had an orgasm before meeting me. that seems messed up to me. if she says she doesn't, it's a warning sign. means she's not comfortable with sexuality and is going to be a cold fish.
  • CorporateWhore
    CorporateWhore Posts: 1,890
    polaris wrote:
    women need to learn to masturbate - it gets them in touch with their own sexuality and its easier for them to orgasm when they are better connected with their body ...

    although in your case - i don't know what to say ... i would find it difficult myself ...

    Hah i wasn't talking about myself obviously since i'm not a chick...oh...i see what you were saying.

    i was just saying that my girlfriend is kind of the opposite of what soulsinging was describing.
    All I know is that to see, and not to speak, would be the great betrayal.
    -Enoch Powell
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    Juberoo wrote:
    Unfortunately it's not. I have had several patients who due to anger over contracting a disease themselves (in this case HIV) they developed a non-care attitude "I got from someone so why should I care about anyone else"? Or they are retaliating against a scornful relationship (HIV again) "men are scum and they all deserve to die".

    Just another reason to be sure and use protection EVERY time.

    I guess that confirms my theory that people are stupid.
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    soulsinging wrote:
    yeah well, im stuck with neither. so maybe im just pissed off.

    tough
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    polaris wrote:
    tough

    no shit. which brings us back to my initial advice... don't let that lovey dovey, touchy-feely crap cloud your mind. make sure she's going to be a tiger in bed. otherwise, the sweetest girl in the world can't hold your interest if she has absolutely zero sexuality.
  • CorporateWhore
    CorporateWhore Posts: 1,890
    soulsinging wrote:
    uncommon? no. but less do than guys. ive dated 2 girls in a row who claim to have never done it and never had an orgasm before meeting me. that seems messed up to me. if she says she doesn't, it's a warning sign. means she's not comfortable with sexuality and is going to be a cold fish.

    My girlfriend and I haven't had sex but she orgasms before me usually when we do hook up. She's definitely not a cold fish, but at the same time, she has serious problems with random sex.
    All I know is that to see, and not to speak, would be the great betrayal.
    -Enoch Powell
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    CorporateWhore wrote:
    My girlfriend and I haven't had sex but she orgasms before me usually when we do hook up. She's definitely not a cold fish, but at the same time, she has serious problems with random sex.

    that's her problem, not yours.
  • VictoryGin
    VictoryGin Posts: 1,207
    polaris wrote:
    i would give it all up for a shot at you ... ;)

    aww. sweet, smart, funny, and progressive. a rare breed! there are some lucky ladies up there.
    if you wanna be a friend of mine
    cross the river to the eastside
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    soulsinging wrote:
    child support payments pale in comparison to the time and toll birth and physically raising a child take.

    Bullshit.

    I know for a fact that kidney stones hurt a lot more than child birth. I'm also pretty sure getting hit by a truck is more painful.

    It's blown out of proportion. The only way to make comparisons is to find a woman that has experienced both. How many women have given birth and been kicked in the balls? Probably none.

    I've known many men in this situation where they pay out their nose most of their income for their ex-wives, the money never goes to the children. With visitation rights they can see their kids, but can't afford to take em out to the movies or even buy them an ice-cream.
    yes, men can. but medically speaking, it is easier for women to get them becos of the way their system is designed.

    Oh yeah? Then why is it that gay men tend to transmit alot of STDs?

    I don't think it's easier for women to get STDs. See, in order for that to happen, the guy would have to have the STD first... then it would seem that it's easier for men to have STDs. But in actuality, I think it's pretty much even, since that's how STDs are spread.
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    VictoryGin wrote:
    aww. sweet, smart, funny, and progressive. a rare breed! there are some lucky ladies up there.

    i think most rue the day they met me ... :p

    you need to add indifferent and way too independent to balance that out!
  • jlew24asu
    jlew24asu Posts: 10,118
    Ahnimus wrote:
    Actually. This pertains to a discussion we had a few months ago about statutory rape. The general census was that a 40 year old woman having sex with a 15 year old boy was more acceptable than if the genders were reversed. This study shows that whatever the genders are, the level of "taking-advantage-of" is roughly equivelant. That girls do not get into bed for love significantly more than boys do.

    It's a very common stereotype that "women are far more interested in love than sexual intercourse" and the opposite is true for men. The results of this research shows that men and women are roughly the same.

    I very much agree with that.

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