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  • CorporateWhore
    CorporateWhore Posts: 1,890
    This thread reminds me of my own problems.

    If you had random sex with someone a long time ago and then you get a girlfriend who thinks sex should only be for love, do you have to tell her that you had random sex with someone? Or is just telling her you're not a virgin okay?
    All I know is that to see, and not to speak, would be the great betrayal.
    -Enoch Powell
  • gue_barium
    gue_barium Posts: 5,515
    CorporateWhore wrote:
    This thread reminds me of my own problems.

    If you had random sex with someone a long time ago and then you get a girlfriend who thinks sex should only be for love, do you have to tell her that you had random sex with someone? Or is just telling her you're not a virgin okay?

    When I was a virgin, I told my girlfriend I had had sex before.

    After the first time, she said, "I'm proud to be your first."

    I'm a horrible liar.
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  • VictoryGin
    VictoryGin Posts: 1,207
    CorporateWhore wrote:
    This thread reminds me of my own problems.

    If you had random sex with someone a long time ago and then you get a girlfriend who thinks sex should only be for love, do you have to tell her that you had random sex with someone? Or is just telling her you're not a virgin okay?

    aww, is this your way of telling us you got laid? i think the most important question here is: did you wrap that shit up?
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  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    VictoryGin wrote:
    aww, is this your way of telling us you got laid? i think the most important question here is: did you wrap that shit up?

    my question is still why he didn't wait until marriage like his religion tells him to and how come he gets to ignore the rules he finds inconvenient but nobody else can? i mean, if he can't contain his desire for his gf even a year or two until the wedding, how can he demand a homosexual must supress their desires until they die?
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    CorporateWhore wrote:
    This thread reminds me of my own problems.

    If you had random sex with someone a long time ago and then you get a girlfriend who thinks sex should only be for love, do you have to tell her that you had random sex with someone? Or is just telling her you're not a virgin okay?

    i give them all the graphic details. it turns them on and prepares them for all the kinky shit im gonna wanna do to them. and if it spooks em, then i know it wasn't meant to be anyway cos they're a prude. plus, if she thinks she's got a lot to live up to, she'll try harder to please you cos women are way more competitive than men and every woman feels the need to prove her pussy is the best.
  • VictoryGin
    VictoryGin Posts: 1,207
    soulsinging wrote:
    my question is still why he didn't wait until marriage like his religion tells him to and how come he gets to ignore the rules he finds inconvenient but nobody else can? i mean, if he can't contain his desire for his gf even a year or two until the wedding, how can he demand a homosexual must supress their desires until they die?

    yeah i was wondering that too, but i just didn't feel like typing so much. thanks!
    if you wanna be a friend of mine
    cross the river to the eastside
  • CorporateWhore
    CorporateWhore Posts: 1,890
    VictoryGin wrote:
    aww, is this your way of telling us you got laid? i think the most important question here is: did you wrap that shit up?

    Yeah. This is like a legit problem for me though. My current girlfriend wanted to know all sorts of details about who it was when etc. I was content with telling her the number and that I have no STDs.
    All I know is that to see, and not to speak, would be the great betrayal.
    -Enoch Powell
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    CorporateWhore wrote:
    Yeah. This is like a legit problem for me though. My current girlfriend wanted to know all sorts of details about who it was when etc. I was content with telling her the number and that I have no STDs.

    what's the number and when was the last time you were tested? like i said, give her details. she will feel inadequate and then work harder to make up the difference. also, act very remorseful. those holy chicks eat that shit up. she'll think she's saving you by fucking you in love.
  • VictoryGin
    VictoryGin Posts: 1,207
    CorporateWhore wrote:
    Yeah. This is like a legit problem for me though. My current girlfriend wanted to know all sorts of details about who it was when etc. I was content with telling her the number and that I have no STDs.

    i think honesty is good for relationships. if someone can't handle being honest or hearing the honest, then it doesn't seem like the right relationship.
    if you wanna be a friend of mine
    cross the river to the eastside
  • CorporateWhore
    CorporateWhore Posts: 1,890
    soulsinging wrote:
    what's the number and when was the last time you were tested? like i said, give her details. she will feel inadequate and then work harder to make up the difference. also, act very remorseful. those holy chicks eat that shit up. she'll think she's saving you by fucking you in love.

    Somehow i dont think your advice is very helpful.
    All I know is that to see, and not to speak, would be the great betrayal.
    -Enoch Powell
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    CorporateWhore wrote:
    Somehow i dont think your advice is very helpful.

    it depends on what you want out of her. if you just want a nice piece of ass, it's the way to go. now if you're looking for love... you might wanna go back to the first post. girls that age don't want love. they just want to fuck guys like me and get it outta their system.
  • Juberoo
    Juberoo Posts: 472
    CorporateWhore wrote:
    This thread reminds me of my own problems.

    If you had random sex with someone a long time ago and then you get a girlfriend who thinks sex should only be for love, do you have to tell her that you had random sex with someone? Or is just telling her you're not a virgin okay?
    You should be able to respect each other enough to satisfy both persons needs.

    For example...if she "needs" to know details then you should be willing to give them up. But if you "need" a sense of privacy and don't want to talk about it, then she should be willing to let it go. In other words, there is give and take in a relationship. Both partners should feel that their needs are being met. If that can't happen or if one person is in control, then the relationship is doomed.
    Makes much more sense, to live in the present tense.

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  • Juberoo
    Juberoo Posts: 472
    soulsinging wrote:
    i give them all the graphic details. it turns them on and prepares them for all the kinky shit im gonna wanna do to them. and if it spooks em, then i know it wasn't meant to be anyway cos they're a prude. plus, if she thinks she's got a lot to live up to, she'll try harder to please you cos women are way more competitive than men and every woman feels the need to prove her pussy is the best.
    You're an idiot. I feel sorry for ANY woman who gets tangled up with you.
    Makes much more sense, to live in the present tense.

    A truly liberal person is conservative when necessary.

    Pro-life by choice.
  • Collin
    Collin Posts: 4,931
    CorporateWhore wrote:
    This thread reminds me of my own problems.

    If you had random sex with someone a long time ago and then you get a girlfriend who thinks sex should only be for love, do you have to tell her that you had random sex with someone? Or is just telling her you're not a virgin okay?

    I had random (safe) sex with a girl a week before I met my girlfriend, she was totally against one-night stands and stuff like that... When we were talking about this she was surprised by how I felt about it and then asked if I would ever do it, then I said I had already.

    She was kind of annoyed, for a while, but that's because she was insecure and judged everything I did and jumped to conclusions about everything.

    If your girl is mature enough, you should be able to tell her, if she is like my ex, she'll keep throwing it in your face everytime you have a fight.
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  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    Juberoo wrote:
    You're an idiot. I feel sorry for ANY woman who gets tangled up with you.

    you wouldn't be the only one. and i kinda do too ;)
  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    hands up for anyone else in a meaningless relationship now?? ... i mean the sex is fantastic but really - at some point i gotta grow up and try and forge something real with someone ...
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    polaris wrote:
    hands up for anyone else in a meaningless relationship now?? ... i mean the sex is fantastic but really - at some point i gotta grow up and try and forge something real with someone ...

    i have the exact opposite problem. it's meaningful and real, but lackluster sex. ill trade you.
  • CorporateWhore
    CorporateWhore Posts: 1,890
    polaris wrote:
    hands up for anyone else in a meaningless relationship now?? ... i mean the sex is fantastic but really - at some point i gotta grow up and try and forge something real with someone ...

    I too am in the opposite. No sex but a pretty serious relationship.
    All I know is that to see, and not to speak, would be the great betrayal.
    -Enoch Powell
  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    CorporateWhore wrote:
    I too am in the opposite. No sex but a pretty serious relationship.

    i've never been in a relationship with no sex ... do u guys shower? ... :p

    you guys must be young ... i believe women's sex drive goes up with age up until a certain point ... and men go in the opposite direction ...
  • soulsinging
    soulsinging Posts: 13,202
    polaris wrote:
    i've never been in a relationship with no sex ... do u guys shower? ... :p

    you guys must be young ... i believe women's sex drive goes up with age up until a certain point ... and men go in the opposite direction ...

    interesting. becos i've heard that child-birth, women's sex drive plummets. maybe only single or childless women do that.

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