children's bill of rights - 4 u SPARK

Alright Spark: a couple things here.

First off, I find it very interesting that you come down here in an effort to vocally discredit, not to rebut, not to defend yourself but to verbally abuse lifeisworth publically in the one place you know she comes for refuge.

This smacks of exactly the same sort of mind games she is speaking of in that list of kids rights up there. You need to understand that this poison and vitriol spills over your child daily, like an acid wash, and will bleach them DRY. They will crack under emotive pressure no matter where they are at, as long as it involves someone close to them, they will also be as twisted and bent in their relationships as you seem to be right at this moment. Think about that. How much is it worth to you to embarass lifeisworth, or to destroy her relationship with her kid? huh? Is it really worth your child's positive humanity? Is it worth the pain and suffering all three of you will endure in the future as your child makes choices that can only be traced back to the choices you are making right now? At what price is your vengeance, self-pity, self-worth, and righteousness sated? You tell me. But think on it first as I have more for you.

You also attack this so-called fantasy world. Well. You are correct that I don't really have physical proof outside of a computer screen one way or the other, but there is no doubt that the breadth and width of the ideas and dreams and actions and lives posted on this board are as varied as humankind itself. I find it difficult to believe that such a thing is easy, if probable at this time, to simulate, so I am willing to suspend belief and dive right in and, LO, there be tygers in these lands. I highly suggest you take a long look around you before you barge into this place and point fingers like some sixshooter without ammunition. Because you have no ammo here. We take everything at face value and let me tell you, your first entrance was worthless, and your second impression was worse. You have no friends here until you change your fucking act and decide to maintain a level of civility, got that? No personal respect until earned. FUNNY. It sounds to me a lot like the REAL WORLD.

Also, this accusation of sleeping with psychos. Well, I cannot speak for lifeisworth here, I have no idea nor is it any of my business to know who she is sleeping with, but it seems to me that if she has stopped sleeping with you at least, then the goal of not sleeping with psychos has at least been attained. No matter the cost.

Everyone on here is correct. You are taking this argument further and further away from the child because for you, it isn't about the child, it's about you. It is abundantly clear. I have no doubt that you care for your child but it is not right nor is it ever appropriate to deprive a child of a given parent for reasons other than health and safety. If the child is unsafe, then by all means remove them from harm. If the child's health is in danger, then by all means nurse them properly and they shall return to wellness. But other than these two things, there are no reasonable excuses for removing a child from another parent forever.

I would venture to say that in the heat of your rage and your confusion and your depression that you are looking for anyway possible to control the situation around you. That is so natural as to be considered commonplace and at the very least, utmost human. Let it go to the extent that you can, if only so that you realize that your child still has feelings, that they have not gone away and that they will not go away anytime soon. Next move on to other people, notably lifeisworth; she has feelings and, while they may not be at all for you (accept that, the relationship is obviously dead from what I can see), they may very well be for the child, and they may be quite deep and heartfelt. You have no right to toy with that.

The future of that child is both yours AND lifeisworth's to command. If you cannot come to a reasonable or at least a quiet solution, you BOTH run the risk of sacrificing your own blood to your god wrath.

There is nothing more sinful.

Setaside2