children's bill of rights - 4 u SPARK

lifeisworth · September 2003

Bill of Rights
1.The Right to know that I am loved unconditionally.
2.The Right to know that I did'nt cause my parents
divorce.
3. The Right to know what caused the divorce.
4.The Right to the security of knowing where I will
live and who I will live with.
5.The Right to be aware of how stress affects my life
and how I can adapt to it in a healthy way.
6.The Right to be a kid and not to be afraid of being
myself.
7.The Right to have the guarantee that my physical and
emotional needs will be met.
8.The Right not be a victim of the past marriage and
not to be used as a pawn between my parents.
9.The right to have my own space for privacy to ensure
respect of my person.
10.The Right to have a normal household routine and
discipline to warrant a sense of security.
11.The Right to possess positive images of my parents
so
that I can love each parent equally.
12.The Right to have access and time with each parent
equally.

you hurt yourself when you hurt the girl to hurt me...
you will have to answer for your actions
to her, not me...

there are numerous resources out there to guide you in child care, but common sense is that SHE gets to be the kid... YOU have to be the grown up...

fucking good luck

this item #12 on the list above...
keep hurting her and you will leave me no choice, no sane parenting choice to restrict that as i can...

i am a damn good parent and you know it
the books i've read
the care i've taken...

childofthe80s · September 2003

wow.. heard of email? phone maybe?

rise above · September 2003

its called venting.

good post, life.

xo

Being Enlightened · September 2003

Wish my parent had adhered! Good luck! Take care!

JDE-PJ · September 2003

sorry life:(

hope the person you made this for, reads it and learns from it.

lifeisworth · September 2003

no child

i've never heard of email
or the telephone

Radar(Baba)O'Riley · September 2003

I think you forgot a couple, life:

The Right to put soda pop in the microwave.
The Right to hold the cat by any available appendage.
The Right to "clothing is optional."
The Right to boycot baths.
The Right to paint on the TV screen.
The Right to sleep anywhere.
The Right to pick noses.

setaside2 · September 2003

lifeisworth, I have missed talking to you a great deal.

And now you have to deal with this situation. I cannot tell you how angry it makes me for you and with you. I am hoping that as my wife and I move forward with our divorce that this will never happen.

My parents pulled this crap 24/7. Now that we are all 18 and older (me: 26 bro:22 sis:18) we have told the both of them that is has gotten OLD and that YES it is time for them to notice that their children have grown up while they have not.

I won't lie, it causes a chunk off the brick of respect to be removed. None of us give a fig for what our parents think of each other anymore. Truly fucking pointless.

I wish you the best. If you need anything, email or PM me. seriously.

setaside2

keven 33 · September 2003

i like half of that
half is devine
and half is a fire

yes kids who go through any emotional loss of a friend
parent pet anything need to be told the truth

so if i screw up then i say look i am to blame regardless
of the screw up, they learn better from honesty

yet honestly there are times when we lose the book of
reality and start singing i'm hot blooded check it and see

of course that's no excuse

i'm guilty

spark · September 2003

You are addicted to the computer (fantasy world) and need help! Maybe you should get off the computer and spend some quality time with the kids!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe you should stop sleeping with strangers and psycho's and spend some quality time with the kids!!!!!!!!!!!! MAYBE YOU SHOULD LOOK AT YOUR BEHAVIOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

keven 33 · September 2003

thank you your right it's good to have someone reinforce my desire to drink alchohol and right poetry to such an honest point that i turn into

whatever it was i was last night

mybluesatellite · September 2003

Originally posted by spark
You are addicted to the computer (fantasy world) and need help! Maybe you should get off the computer and spend some quality time with the kids!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe you should stop sleeping with strangers and psycho's and spend some quality time with the kids!!!!!!!!!!!! MAYBE YOU SHOULD LOOK AT YOUR BEHAVIOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Looks like you're addicted to being a jackass.
Grow up.
js

puremagic · September 2003

Originally posted by spark
You are addicted to the computer (fantasy world) and need help! Maybe you should get off the computer and spend some quality time with the kids!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe you should stop sleeping with strangers and psycho's and spend some quality time with the kids!!!!!!!!!!!! MAYBE YOU SHOULD LOOK AT YOUR BEHAVIOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Maybe you should back the fuck off. Life is about parenting and she has always come across as a damn good one. If your going to yell something, keep it on topic. ITS ABOUT THE CHILD.

spark · September 2003

You post here 36 times a day!!!!!!!!! Wow- sounds like you are addicted too! Get a life help is available for you.
Peace

rise above · September 2003

Originally posted by spark
You are addicted to the computer (fantasy world) and need help! Maybe you should get off the computer and spend some quality time with the kids!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe you should stop sleeping with strangers and psycho's and spend some quality time with the kids!!!!!!!!!!!! MAYBE YOU SHOULD LOOK AT YOUR BEHAVIOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

this place IS help.
you wouldn't believe the help that can be found...the support and advice...from people that share the same problems. i found people with alcoholic husbands that were emotional abusers and power/control freaks. mine was all that wrapped into one. i needed the support so i could become an EVEN BETTER mother to my child. and it worked. maybe she's doing the same. although from what i see, she's already a damn good mom.

its all about the kids. if you love them, you don't play with their heads, no matter WHAT is going on. end of story.

puremagic · September 2003

Originally posted by spark
You post here 36 times a day!!!!!!!!! Wow- sounds like you are addicted too! Get a life help is available for you.
Peace

Did those "bill of rights" hit to close to home for you? Did they bring back repressed memories or something for you to just come out attacking? Sorry about your childhood.

mybluesatellite · September 2003

Originally posted by spark
You post here 36 times a day!!!!!!!!! Wow- sounds like you are addicted too! Get a life help is available for you.
Peace

are you as much of a desperate psychotic a-hole as your overuse of exclamation points would suggest?
I'm afraid the answer is
'YES!!!!!!!'
And as far as telling people here to get a life, when I go home from work tonight, there will be someone there to greet me,
can you say that?
js

Pacomc79 · September 2003

*there will be someone there to greet me,
can you say that?*

Well, Jack Daniels anyway.

nfmessiah · September 2003

Originally posted by Pacomc79
*there will be someone there to greet me,
can you say that?*

Well, Jack Daniels anyway.

amen

lifeisworth · September 2003

don't you think you oughtta rest
don't you think you oughtta lay you head down
don't you think you want to sleep
don't you think you oughtta lay your head down, tonight
don't you think you've done enough
oh, don't you think you've got enough, well maybe...
you don't think there's time to stop
there's time enough for you to lay your head down...tonight, tonight
let it wash away
all those yesterdays...
what are you running from
taking pills to get along
creating walls to call your own
so no one catches you
drifting off and doing all the things
that we all do
let them all wash away
all those yesterdays...
all those yesterdays
all those paper plates
all those yesterdays
you've got time, you've got time to escape
there's still time
it's no crime to escape
it's no crime to escape
it's no crime to escape
there's still time, so escape
it's no crime...
all those yesterdays
all those yesterdays
all those yesterdays

rearviewmirror...

JDE-PJ · September 2003

Originally posted by lifeisworth
don't you think you oughtta rest
don't you think you oughtta lay you head down
don't you think you want to sleep
don't you think you oughtta lay your head down, tonight
don't you think you've done enough
oh, don't you think you've got enough, well maybe...
you don't think there's time to stop
there's time enough for you to lay your head down...tonight, tonight
let it wash away
all those yesterdays...
what are you running from
taking pills to get along
creating walls to call your own
so no one catches you
drifting off and doing all the things
that we all do
let them all wash away
all those yesterdays...
all those yesterdays
all those paper plates
all those yesterdays
you've got time, you've got time to escape
there's still time
it's no crime to escape
it's no crime to escape
it's no crime to escape
there's still time, so escape
it's no crime...
all those yesterdays
all those yesterdays
all those yesterdays

rearviewmirror...

that's a nice song life:)

children's bill of rights - 4 u SPARK

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