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  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 49,473
    edited March 2018
    rgambs said:
    mickeyrat said:
    I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

    majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.


    Hedonist
    PJ Soul
    Oftenreading
    Jnimhaoileoin
    Northerndragon
    The Juggler
    Unsung
    You?

    There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

    Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.
    Not slandering, just saying I believe they have a dislike for me.

    And I guess that's your problem? You literally ignore what people say to you and create your very own story in your head that has no connection to reality, apparently. I have gone out of my way MANY times to try and give you some advise about how to deal with your troubles, and to be honest and blunt with you so that it's really clear... and your response is to put me in a list of people you think dislike you. If I disliked you, I wouldn't have bothered..... Although I gotta say, after me attempting to help you when you've asked for help and then getting this response, it ain't good for your cause man, if you're hoping for people to like you (although I sincerely have no clue if that's your goal... it's more like you want to find proof that people don't like you rather than trying to work out if people do... kind of like you WANT people to dislike you).
    Good god, suck it up. I can guarantee you that I've gotten more flack on this forum than you have, and have had more people directly express their disdain for me here than you have, and I don't give a shit, so I'm not sure wtf your problem is.
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  • Halifax2TheMaxHalifax2TheMax Posts: 36,481
    I’m a Patriots and a Red Sox fan as well as a libtardiarian and I know some posters might hate or dislike me but I haven’t, nor will I, start a list. Hell, I don’t take any of this shit personally and if we were all pregameing pre-show, we’d all be laughing and having a good time. Heck, me and McGruff are going to solve all the world’s problems. Let it go.
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  • mcgruff10mcgruff10 New Jersey Posts: 27,739
    I’m a Patriots and a Red Sox fan as well as a libtardiarian and I know some posters might hate or dislike me but I haven’t, nor will I, start a list. Hell, I don’t take any of this shit personally and if we were all pregameing pre-show, we’d all be laughing and having a good time. Heck, me and McGruff are going to solve all the world’s problems. Let it go.
    Heck yeah bud!!  
    OP I have definitely got into heated discussions in the america's gun violence thread but I definitely don't dislike anybody; we just have a different opinion which is great.  I've learned a lot from that thread, don't take everything so personal.  
    I'll ride the wave where it takes me......
  • The JugglerThe Juggler Behind that bush over there. Posts: 47,141
    So I'm blacklisted then?
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  • PoncierPoncier Posts: 16,171
    So I'm blacklisted then?

    This weekend we rock Portland
  • lolobugglolobugg BLUE RDGE MTNS Posts: 8,175
    So I'm blacklisted then?


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  • Attaway77Attaway77 Posts: 2,848
    edited March 2018
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  • HughFreakingDillonHughFreakingDillon Winnipeg Posts: 35,808
    There are people and their comments that i have seen and thought "oh,they are not my kind of people" really that is part of life in general. Why do you need everyone to "like" you. Nobody is liked by everyone ever.
    I thought we as PJ fans would all be alike. To be disliked by more people than liked here sucks.
    why would millions of people who have one thing in common all be alike?
    Darwinspeed, all. 

    Cheers,

    HFD




  • HughFreakingDillonHughFreakingDillon Winnipeg Posts: 35,808
    if your singular goal in life is to be liked, stay away from the internet. 
    Darwinspeed, all. 

    Cheers,

    HFD




  • dankinddankind I am not your foot. Posts: 20,827
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  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 49,473
    if your singular goal in life is to be liked, stay away from the internet. 
    I'm starting to think his goal is to be disliked. He seems to really really want to believe that people don't like him! Therefore... he should spend more time on the internet! =)
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • RogueStonerRogueStoner Sunny AZ Posts: 1,716
    rgambs said:
    mickeyrat said:
    I can never live up to what I perceive others think of me.

    majority on this  entire forum?  how many thousands is that? now name them.  not more than a handful I expect, if that.


    Hedonist
    PJ Soul
    Oftenreading
    Jnimhaoileoin
    Northerndragon
    The Juggler
    Unsung
    You?

    There a number more that I am struggling to remember their usernames that I have not seen post here in a very long time.

    Those are some very fine folks you are slandering my friend, and not but *maybe* one of them bears the animosity and disdain for you that you have conjured in your head.
    Not slandering, just saying I believe they have a dislike for me.

    Who cares even if they do?  Move on.
    I've been feeling down about it. I just want to be accepted and liked.
    For the love, TA, STOP. I understand how you feel, I really do. Everyone wants to be accepted and liked in some way but you really need to stop seeking it from those who won’t give it to you. I know it hurts but have you stopped to think that maybe some of them are dealing with things too that has nothing to do with you but may affect their mood? And some just don’t give a shit about others and never will. Either way, don’t let it consume you. But, dude, that list? On a public forum? Not cool. Imagine how you would feel. 
    On a positive note...remember the thread you created with guessing people’s usernames? Lots of people liked that and clearly said so. Proof that everyone does not dislike you. 
    Just be yourself. The right people will naturally gravitate towards you. I hope you feel better soon. :hug:
  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 49,473
    I'd like just to point out to you, Thoughts_Arrive, that your "list of people who you think dislike you" are mostly women ..... I just found that interesting. Perhaps some food for thought, and my point is not that women dislike you, lol.
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • RogueStonerRogueStoner Sunny AZ Posts: 1,716
    PJ_Soul said:
    I'd like just to point out to you, Thoughts_Arrive, that your "list of people who you think dislike you" are mostly women ..... I just found that interesting. Perhaps some food for thought, and my point is not that women dislike you, lol.
    Nice job, PJS! Add more to the list. ;)
    Next thread...”Why do women dislike me” :lol:

    Clearly, I’m joking, TA. Laugh with us. :)
  • The JugglerThe Juggler Behind that bush over there. Posts: 47,141
    PJ_Soul said:
    I'd like just to point out to you, Thoughts_Arrive, that your "list of people who you think dislike you" are mostly women ..... I just found that interesting. Perhaps some food for thought, and my point is not that women dislike you, lol.

    See, now I offended. God Dammit.
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  • RogueStonerRogueStoner Sunny AZ Posts: 1,716
    PJ_Soul said:
    I'd like just to point out to you, Thoughts_Arrive, that your "list of people who you think dislike you" are mostly women ..... I just found that interesting. Perhaps some food for thought, and my point is not that women dislike you, lol.

    See, now I offended. God Dammit.
    Why? Because you don’t have the biggest balls on that list? ;)
  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 49,473
    PJ_Soul said:
    I'd like just to point out to you, Thoughts_Arrive, that your "list of people who you think dislike you" are mostly women ..... I just found that interesting. Perhaps some food for thought, and my point is not that women dislike you, lol.

    See, now I offended. God Dammit.
    Why? Because you don’t have the biggest balls on that list? ;)
    :rofl:
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
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