R.I.P. Chester Bennington

Just saw the news. And on Chris Cornell's birthday
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  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam NINUNINOPRO Posts: 139,136
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • mcgruff10mcgruff10 New Jersey Posts: 27,739
    Fuck. Awesome singer. Rip
    I'll ride the wave where it takes me......
  • Indifference71Indifference71 Chicago Posts: 14,723
    Awful.  Was super into LP back in the day....Chester had an incredible voice.  So sad.  RIP.
  • Ms. HaikuMs. Haiku Washington DC Posts: 7,245
    So sad!
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  • FoxyRedLaFoxyRedLa Lauren / MI Posts: 4,810
    I just heard. RIP.

    Oh please let it rain today.
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  • Amongst the AniAmongst the Ani @Wobbie Posts: 7,790
    Sad yet again. R.I.P. 
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  • SmallestOceansSmallestOceans Posts: 13,542
    Wtf...
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  • hauntingfamiliarhauntingfamiliar Wilmington, NC Posts: 10,217
    ??????? What???!
  • DegeneratefkDegeneratefk Posts: 3,123
    I was a casual fam, but this dude could wail. "SHUTUP WHEN I'M TALKING TO YOU! SHUTUP!"
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  • DegeneratefkDegeneratefk Posts: 3,123

    will myself to find a home, a home within myself
    we will find a way, we will find our place
  • SmallestOceansSmallestOceans Posts: 13,542

    I can't stand when people say depression and drugs killed these guys. No. Chester Bennington killed Chester Bennington. Chris Cornell killed Chris Cornell. Surely depression may have played a big role in their decisions, but people really need to take accountability for their own actions. It is nobody's fault but their own. 
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  • DegeneratefkDegeneratefk Posts: 3,123

    I can't stand when people say depression and drugs killed these guys. No. Chester Bennington killed Chester Bennington. Chris Cornell killed Chris Cornell. Surely depression may have played a big role in their decisions, but people really need to take accountability for their own actions. It is nobody's fault but their own. 
    Are you serious? You are clearly ignorant to the power the mind has over people. I don't know if you have ever suffered from long term depression, I don't really care. But to say that depression isn't a reason people commit suicide is absurd and narrow minded. 


    will myself to find a home, a home within myself
    we will find a way, we will find our place
  • hedonisthedonist standing on the edge of forever Posts: 24,524

    I can't stand when people say depression and drugs killed these guys. No. Chester Bennington killed Chester Bennington. Chris Cornell killed Chris Cornell. Surely depression may have played a big role in their decisions, but people really need to take accountability for their own actions. It is nobody's fault but their own. 
    Depression and / or mis-prescribed meds tend to take over rationale in those dark moments.  Won't go into why, but years ago I was there for a brief time and am thankful (fortunate) it passed.  I am in no position to judge anyone when they're in that place, in that awful black state of mind.

    I can understand anger surfacing in the aftermath by those left behind, those trying to understand - but to place blame, fault, on that person and their personal precipice?  Compassion goes a long, long way.  Opens the window, even just a bit, to alleviate the need to condemn. 
  • SmallestOceansSmallestOceans Posts: 13,542
    Are you serious? You are clearly ignorant to the power the mind has over people. I don't know if you have ever suffered from long term depression, I don't really care. But to say that depression isn't a reason people commit suicide is absurd and narrow minded. 


    I'm not clearly ignorant. You don't know a single thing about me and you make assumptions over the internet.

    Of course anxiety, depression, drugs can lead a person down into that Mariana Trench of an abyss where nothing but the living dead reside and all perception is distorted. You CAN choose life over death down there and you can get out of it. But if you give all your power away to what you think controls you, then that's when you're done. It always comes down to the will of the individual down there...not the will of anxiety or depression. People do have the power to get out of any situation.

    Unexpected death is just so fucked up. 
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    Central Park 15
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  • SmallestOceansSmallestOceans Posts: 13,542
    edited July 2017
    So you know so much more about the power of the mind than I do? Tell me about it.
    Post edited by SmallestOceans on
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    Central Park 15
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  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam NINUNINOPRO Posts: 139,136
    wtf is going on
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • fifefife Posts: 3,327

    I can't stand when people say depression and drugs killed these guys. No. Chester Bennington killed Chester Bennington. Chris Cornell killed Chris Cornell. Surely depression may have played a big role in their decisions, but people really need to take accountability for their own actions. It is nobody's fault but their own. 
    ok, you are taking that quote a little to literally.  yes depression didn't kill Chester but depression led to Chester killing himself.  when you are deep in a depressive state, you basically lose yourself.  Can some people overcome this, yes.  other can't and thats not a fault.  sometimes shit happens and it is not anyone fault.  it just is what it is. 
  • DegeneratefkDegeneratefk Posts: 3,123
    Are you serious? You are clearly ignorant to the power the mind has over people. I don't know if you have ever suffered from long term depression, I don't really care. But to say that depression isn't a reason people commit suicide is absurd and narrow minded. 


    I'm not clearly ignorant. You don't know a single thing about me and you make assumptions over the internet.

    Of course anxiety, depression, drugs can lead a person down into that Mariana Trench of an abyss where nothing but the living dead reside and all perception is distorted. You CAN choose life over death down there and you can get out of it. But if you give all your power away to what you think controls you, then that's when you're done. It always comes down to the will of the individual down there...not the will of anxiety or depression. People do have the power to get out of any situation.

    Unexpected death is just so fucked up. 
    Is it that,simple to choose life over death when depression has it's grip over you? If it was that simple, why would anyone choose death? I apologize for my reaction to what you said. I do not agree with your premise.
    will myself to find a home, a home within myself
    we will find a way, we will find our place
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