Six kids. Honestly my reaction to this is pissed off. This was obviously thought out and planned ahead of time based on coordinating with Cornell's birthday. Ask for help! You have six kids.
I am just giving my honest response here. I understand the power of depression and despair and perhaps he was on drugs. But you have six kids, time and money.
Just another example than fame fame and money isn't everything.
When I was younger my girlfriend's father took his own life. His depression had got to the point that he'd convinced himself that the family would be better off without him. He even had a brief affair, with the intention of forcing his wife to hate him, making it easier to leave. He overdosed in his car at the side of a road that I used to drive home every day. He did it on my day off work, knowing I wouldn't drive past and see him. All planned out ahead of time.
I'm not trying to speculate anything about Chester's death but you can see how, once someone has passed their point of no return, they can rationalise what they are about to do and plan it all out. Regardless of who and what is left behind, and how many people will feel the loss, it can be justified and normalised in their mind.
Sorry for unloading, I haven't spoken about this in a long time. I managed to keep it in when Chris died but Chester going so soon after just brought it back. I wasn't much of an LP fan but they had some great early singles that are still a bit of a guilty pleasure for me.
This one is getting to me. A little more haunting now for sure.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fGuNOcmHj54 When my time comes Forget the wrong that I've done Help me leave behind some reasons to be missed And don't resent me And when you're feeling empty Keep me in your memory Leave out all the rest
Six kids. Honestly my reaction to this is pissed off. This was obviously thought out and planned ahead of time based on coordinating with Cornell's birthday. Ask for help! You have six kids.
I am just giving my honest response here. I understand the power of depression and despair and perhaps he was on drugs. But you have six kids, time and money.
Just another example than fame fame and money isn't everything.
When I was younger my girlfriend's father took his own life. His depression had got to the point that he'd convinced himself that the family would be better off without him. He even had a brief affair, with the intention of forcing his wife to hate him, making it easier to leave. He overdosed in his car at the side of a road that I used to drive home every day. He did it on my day off work, knowing I wouldn't drive past and see him. All planned out ahead of time.
I'm not trying to speculate anything about Chester's death but you can see how, once someone has passed their point of no return, they can rationalise what they are about to do and plan it all out. Regardless of who and what is left behind, and how many people will feel the loss, it can be justified and normalised in their mind.
Sorry for unloading, I haven't spoken about this in a long time. I managed to keep it in when Chris died but Chester going so soon after just brought it back. I wasn't much of an LP fan but they had some great early singles that are still a bit of a guilty pleasure for me.
Six kids. Honestly my reaction to this is pissed off. This was obviously thought out and planned ahead of time based on coordinating with Cornell's birthday. Ask for help! You have six kids.
I am just giving my honest response here. I understand the power of depression and despair and perhaps he was on drugs. But you have six kids, time and money.
Just another example than fame fame and money isn't everything.
Not saying you are wrong but maybe the memory of Chris on his birthday put him over the edge and it wasn't exactly planned. Mix that with drugs/alcohol (assuming) and you can have a recipe for disaster. My father is recovering alcoholic and his father(my grandfather) passed away on his birthday. Every birthday for years after his passing were the roughest time for my Dad. He was suicidal and I always worried the most during his birthday.
We should all be thankful our minds have not drawn us to what must be utter despair. That being said, this is so sad. I loved his voice, was attracted by the heart pounding rhythm of LPs music. Another WTF news piece that never gets easier. RIP Chester.
This one is getting to me. A little more haunting now for sure.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fGuNOcmHj54 When my time comes Forget the wrong that I've done Help me leave behind some reasons to be missed And don't resent me And when you're feeling empty Keep me in your memory Leave out all the rest
i wish depressed people and suicidal folks could get the help they need. All of them. Its not embarassing its a disease. Family members who shame depression are ridiculous.
The problem with treatment is it's just guessing. If I treat someone's blood pressure I have objective data to say more medicine or less and I can get immediate results. Antidepressants can take weeks or months to work and the follow up is all subjective with the comment "are their more good days then bad days" usually considered a victory when we've learned it takes a lousy moment to have irreversible consequences. Also it's not just medications that treat depression but also things like behavioral therapy which alot of times isn't even covered by most insurers. Add this all to the fact that their aren't even enough healthcare providers to treat this disease you can see how discouraging it can be for a patient to get the help they need.
One of the greatest screams in rock history. I will always admire that guy for transcending his initial image of a nu-metal rock-rap guy. He ended up blending whatever the hell he wanted. Talent always shines through.
Im bummed because a lot of people with issues connected to his lyrics. I hope nobody feels hopeless because of his suicide
One of the greatest screams in rock history. I will always admire that guy for transcending his initial image of a nu-metal rock-rap guy. He ended up blending whatever the hell he wanted. Talent always shines through.
Im bummed because a lot of people with issues connected to his lyrics. I hope nobody feels hopeless because of his suicide
It's tough. I enjoyed Linkin Park ALOT! Their music helped me many years back. With all the money, fame & glory .. with all the family & friends he had that loved him so. It's sad it had to end like this. Depression sucks!!! I've known many that got the help, that tried their best, but couldn't pull through. It's scary stuff. RIP Chester.
Our hearts are broken. The shockwaves of grief and denial are still sweeping through our family as we come to grips with what has happened.
You touched so many lives, maybe even more than you realized. In the past few days, we’ve seen an outpouring of love and support, both public and private, from around the world. Talinda and the family appreciate it, and want the world to know that you were the best husband, son, and father; the family will never be whole without you.
Talking with you about the years ahead together, your excitement was infectious. Your absence leaves a void that can never be filled—a boisterous, funny, ambitious, creative, kind, generous voice in the room is missing. We’re trying to remind ourselves that the demons who took you away from us were always part of the deal. After all, it was the way you sang about those demons that made everyone fall in love with you in the first place. You fearlessly put them on display, and in doing so, brought us together and taught us to be more human. You had the biggest heart, and managed to wear it on your sleeve.
Our love for making and performing music is inextinguishable. While we don’t know what path our future may take, we know that each of our lives was made better by you. Thank you for that gift. We love you, and miss you so much.
Our hearts are broken. The shockwaves of grief and denial are still sweeping through our family as we come to grips with what has happened.
You touched so many lives, maybe even more than you realized. In the past few days, we’ve seen an outpouring of love and support, both public and private, from around the world. Talinda and the family appreciate it, and want the world to know that you were the best husband, son, and father; the family will never be whole without you.
Talking with you about the years ahead together, your excitement was infectious. Your absence leaves a void that can never be filled—a boisterous, funny, ambitious, creative, kind, generous voice in the room is missing. We’re trying to remind ourselves that the demons who took you away from us were always part of the deal. After all, it was the way you sang about those demons that made everyone fall in love with you in the first place. You fearlessly put them on display, and in doing so, brought us together and taught us to be more human. You had the biggest heart, and managed to wear it on your sleeve.
Our love for making and performing music is inextinguishable. While we don’t know what path our future may take, we know that each of our lives was made better by you. Thank you for that gift. We love you, and miss you so much.
Six kids. Honestly my reaction to this is pissed off. This was obviously thought out and planned ahead of time based on coordinating with Cornell's birthday. Ask for help! You have six kids.
I am just giving my honest response here. I understand the power of depression and despair and perhaps he was on drugs. But you have six kids, time and money.
Just another example than fame fame and money isn't everything.
Once you're at that point, the six kids, time, and money are totally irrelevant - suicidal people can be way too far gone into that hole to be capable of considering such things rationally. And in some cases, they truly believe that the kids will be better off without you.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
Being angry is part of processing it. A colleague of mine hung himself at home in his backyard - kids, wife, amazing therapist & kindest person. Nobody saw it coming. Left a voicemail on another colleague's work phone that evening before carrying it out. Even 10 yrs later I can't say out loud what he said in that voicemail but @PJ_Soul makes some valid points. Its the deepest levels of despair. The darkest of thoughts & so much relief when the decision is made to die. Like one finally feels that ellusive sense of control.
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I'm not trying to speculate anything about Chester's death but you can see how, once someone has passed their point of no return, they can rationalise what they are about to do and plan it all out. Regardless of who and what is left behind, and how many people will feel the loss, it can be justified and normalised in their mind.
Sorry for unloading, I haven't spoken about this in a long time. I managed to keep it in when Chris died but Chester going so soon after just brought it back. I wasn't much of an LP fan but they had some great early singles that are still a bit of a guilty pleasure for me.
RIP Chester, I hope you're at peace now.
(Jeff Tweedy, Sydney 2007)
“Put yer good money on the sunrise”
(Tim Rogers)
Reach out to someone if you know they are struggling
After all we are all we have.
When my time comes
Forget the wrong that I've done
Help me leave behind some reasons to be missed
And don't resent me
And when you're feeling empty
Keep me in your memory
Leave out all the rest
Very strange to say the least. I hope his Kids can go on and not be too damaged from this
Lotta Kids
Im bummed because a lot of people with issues connected to his lyrics. I hope nobody feels hopeless because of his suicide
With all the money, fame & glory .. with all the family & friends he had that loved him so.
It's sad it had to end like this. Depression sucks!!! I've known many that got the help, that tried their best, but couldn't pull through.
It's scary stuff. RIP Chester.
On Monday morning, Linkin Park issued a heartfelt tribute to their singer Chester Bennington, who committed suicide on Thursday. The statement follows in full:
Dear Chester,
Our hearts are broken. The shockwaves of grief and denial are still sweeping through our family as we come to grips with what has happened.
You touched so many lives, maybe even more than you realized. In the past few days, we’ve seen an outpouring of love and support, both public and private, from around the world. Talinda and the family appreciate it, and want the world to know that you were the best husband, son, and father; the family will never be whole without you.
Talking with you about the years ahead together, your excitement was infectious. Your absence leaves a void that can never be filled—a boisterous, funny, ambitious, creative, kind, generous voice in the room is missing. We’re trying to remind ourselves that the demons who took you away from us were always part of the deal. After all, it was the way you sang about those demons that made everyone fall in love with you in the first place. You fearlessly put them on display, and in doing so, brought us together and taught us to be more human. You had the biggest heart, and managed to wear it on your sleeve.
Our love for making and performing music is inextinguishable. While we don’t know what path our future may take, we know that each of our lives was made better by you. Thank you for that gift. We love you, and miss you so much.
Until we see you again,
LP
http://6abc.com/entertainment/fans-remember-linkin-parks-bennington-at-camden-waterfront/2267768/
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