Just lost my mother in a car crash...

Title says it all. At a dead end, so I turn to social media and the kind folks of my extended family, my Pearl Jam Family.

My mother was involved in a fatal car crash last Wednesday that took the life of my mother, and the passenger of the other vehicle. It is going to be a very difficult time rebounding from this. If there is anything anyone can do for my family and I during our times of trouble, I would severely appreciate it, though I do understand 100% that times are pretty shitty of recent. I would just like to spread the word of her beautiful soul.
Here is the link to our gofundme. Thank you for your support, thoughts, prayers…really anything. Good vibes, and great tunes…I love you all.
-Daniel Healy
https://www.gofundme.com/2pjamus
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  • pjman75pjman75 Indiana Posts: 836
    So very sorry
    I'm a lucky man to count on both hands the ones I love.

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  • mfc2006mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,368
    Wow, man. So sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
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  • Thanks, you guys. Having a rough go of late. 1 day at a time though. Can't see it ever getting better, but the power of music sure helps a shit load.
  • I'm sorry to hear that, man. Take comfort in your memories and like the song says, this is just "goodbye for now". Those three words have amazing weight to them.
  • iwasatpj20iwasatpj20 Rockford, IL Posts: 3,291
    Sorry to hear that, praying for you.
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  • Ray J. T.Ray J. T. Posts: 3,857
    Sorry to hear this, sending prayers and thoughts out to your family in this tough time.
  • FifthelementFifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,905
    My deepest condolences to you and your family.
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  • FoxyRedLaFoxyRedLa Lauren / MI Posts: 4,810
    Daniel. This just fuckin sux. Im sorry man. Im sorry.
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  • cp3iversoncp3iverson Posts: 8,632
    Its going to be hard but she would want you to get through this until you see her again. Very sorry that this happened. Take care man.
  • Very sorry Daniel. I can't imagine what you and your family are going through.
  • bosshogg18bosshogg18 Tacoma, WA Posts: 1,081
    So sorry for your loss Daniel.
  • deadendpdeadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    I'm very sorry to hear of your loss.
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  • djklambakedjklambake PHX, AZ Posts: 2,510
    Daniel - you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Sending you massive e-hugs right now...
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  • RoleModelsinBlood31RoleModelsinBlood31 Austin TX Posts: 6,136
    So very sorry Daniel. Best to you and your family.
    I'm like an opening band for your mom.
  • 23scidoo23scidoo Thessaloniki,Greece Posts: 18,414
    So sorry to hear this Daniel..be strong..
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  • SaravaSarava Naperville, IL Posts: 1,993
    I'm sorry for your family's loss :(
  • jonbond1779jonbond1779 London, UK Posts: 1,488
    Im sorry Daniel - I too lost my mum suddenly 7 years go now. I I know from personal experience that the wounds do heal, although the scar never disappears. Be strong.
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  • eeriepadaveeeriepadave West Chester, PA Posts: 40,711
    damn dude, sorry. thoughts are with you
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  • footsteps10footsteps10 Danville, VA Posts: 77
    edited September 2016
    Sorry for your loss dude. I know this sucks, but things will get better as the days go by. It may not seem like it, but it will. Keep solace in music and your memories. Praying for you and your family
  • wasa1971wasa1971 Calgary, Canada Posts: 2,144
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers to your family.
  • NamiNami Newfoundland Posts: 5,989
    Sorry for you loss Daniel. thoughts and prayers for your family.
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  • So sorry for your loss, Daniel. My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Please accept my condolences.
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  • aidt17aidt17 Posts: 610
    Sorry to hear, I lost my younger sister 12 years ago now in a car crash when she was 17, the suddenness of these kinds of events are brutal, but speaking from experience things will turn around, may not be tomorrow or next week or next year, for me it was 6 years until I for lack of better words came to terms with it..just know it will. Lean on those around you who offer support, take care
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  • pjalive21pjalive21 St. Louis, MO Posts: 2,818
    Sorry for your loss...thoughts are with you and your family!
  • jjflashjjflash Posts: 4,815
    Daniel,
    Very sorry to learn of the loss of your mom. Praying that you and your family find peace and healing during this challenging time.
    db
  • hedonisthedonist standing on the edge of forever Posts: 24,524
    Good thoughts and energy to you and your family.
  • Amongst the AniAmongst the Ani @Wobbie Posts: 7,790
    So sorry to hear about this.
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  • Wma31394Wma31394 Posts: 3,045
    So sorry
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  • JM55546JM55546 Posts: 128
    edited September 2016
    So sorry about your loss. That is terrible.

    In terms of money donation, it doesn't really say what it's for so if you can give some guidance on that it'd be great. I'd love to donate but outside of "we need money for this because it's expensive" where car insurance usually covers the car (or part of it) there's not a lot of context. Everyone has to pay for these losses unfortunately, if there's some extra burden let me know and I'll donate in a second. I don't need someone to spill a ton of details but it just doesn't say what the money is for or why you're reaching out to the Interweb.
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  • southernmanfansouthernmanfan Johannesburg, South Africa Posts: 988
    so sorry....
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