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PJSirenPJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
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I know not all of you pray, but even positive thoughts and vibes will help. There is a major situation unfolding in my family and we need the prayers and good thoughts we can get....

I have a cousin who is in prison for drugs....she has a 5 year old special needs son, he has spina bifida, he was left in the care of her parents, and they have shit the bed and the state has come in and is taking him away, my grandma is out there and she's getting on a plane tomorrow night to bring him here to Oregon. My husband and I are going to take him in. My uncle is making death threats against people now and my aunt is completely batshit crazy and should probably be commited to a mental facility. They have failed my cousin her entire life and now they are failing her son, and we are stepping in to make sure it doesn't continue....but I am so stressed out right now with my grandma being there that I am sick. and it feels like there is an elephant sitting on my chest. I just don't know what my uncle and aunt are capable of and I am worried for my grandma's wellbeing now too. I will be freaking out until they land back here in Oregon tomorrow night. But we found out that KY CPS wants him out here and away from them and on Monday there will be a hearing that they don't need to be there for to strip my aunt and uncle of their rights.

We just need prayers and thoughts please....everyone!
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    northerndragonnortherndragon somewhere, nowhere, anywhere Posts: 9,734
    Many, many waves of positive energy to you, your family and especially the wee one. I'm sorry for the extremely stressful situation but major props to your family for taking in the wee one and to your grandma for sporting some major cojones in going to get the wee fella. Hope to hear a very positive update after tomorrow evening.
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    deadendpdeadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    Prayers to you and your family. I'm so very sorry. :frowning:
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    dankinddankind I am not your foot. Posts: 20,827
    (((((((((())))))))))

    Thoughts are with you and your family. Stay strong.
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    hedonisthedonist standing on the edge of forever Posts: 24,524
    Best of thoughts from here. Kudos on giving of yourselves to him.
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    JWPearlJWPearl Posts: 19,893
    oh dear sounds like chaos
    will be praying for you..
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    WobbieWobbie Posts: 29,455
    You and your hubby are awesome for doing this. There's a special place in heaven for people like you. I hope my vibes and good thoughts make it up to Oregon.
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    NamiNami Newfoundland Posts: 5,989
    holy s.... thoughts and prayers for you PJSiren
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    ldent42ldent42 NYC Posts: 7,859
    Oh PJSiren, you're doing the right thing. It's not gonna be easy but it's best for the kid. Big hugs.
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    EnkiduEnkidu So Cal Posts: 2,996
    Terrible terrible, all the best and prayers and good thoughts and positive vibes and all that stuff coming your way from LA.
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    SD48277SD48277 Woodstock, NY Posts: 12,242
    Sending positive vibes for you and your family. Sending strength for your grandma, although she sounds like she is one tough lady. You guys are awesome, and the little guy is very lucky to have you in his life.
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    Sprunkn7Sprunkn7 Posts: 5,277
    Prayers, good vibes and hugs sent. Breathe deep and do what you can.
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    oftenreadingoftenreading Victoria, BC Posts: 12,822
    Not much original I can add but do want you to know I'm thinking about you and sending whatever positive energy I can your way.
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    Positive thoughts on their way.
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    samjamsamjam New York Posts: 9,283
    Sending you all the good vibes I have.
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    MalrothMalroth broken down chevrolet Posts: 2,485
    :prayer:
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    WobbieWobbie Posts: 29,455
    man.....I was just reading up on spina bifada :heartbreak:

    do you think your cousin will ever be in a "place" where she can care for her son?

    as ident42 said, you're doing the right thing!

    ((((((( vibes )))))))
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    Empty GlassEmpty Glass In Rob's shed Posts: 12,329
    Thoughts and prayers with you and your family PJSiren. As someone above said, stay strong
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    RKCNDYRKCNDY Seattle, WA Posts: 31,013
    Lots of hugs and well wishes going your way!
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    PJSirenPJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
    Well Keyton and my grandma are on their way to a hotel by the airport....my uncle was arrested, I'm not sure why yet, my husband won't talk about via text he wants to tell me when I get home, and then my aunt took off...to lord only knows where....but the important thing is my grandma and Keyton are safe.

    As for your question Rob, I don't know if she will be or not, she's in jail, she needs rehab, and she doesn't even have a parole hearing until next march....but she was sentenced to 3 years....she has to get out and prove she can stay clean to even get the chance to have him again, I love her to death, but I want her clean and sober to care for him....he's been through too much already in his short life. And he has a long way to go because of his condition....and he needs stability and safety. And If when she gets out I am totally willing to let her see him and all of that, I'm not planning to make her stay away unless she can't stay clean and sober.

    I'm going to write to her this weekend. We can only send post cards though, so it will probably be like 10 post cards because I have so much I want to say...but I'm going to write to her because I want her to know that I love her and I love him and he will be cared for and safe, and that I am so sorry for everything that has happened, but I don't want her to worry about him, she just needs to focus on getting better herself.

    Thank you all for the prayers, it means so much....I just really was in a bad place earlier worrying and needed to talk about it and get some support....and your support means the world to me.
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    SD48277SD48277 Woodstock, NY Posts: 12,242
    Glad to hear that your grandmother and Keyton are safe. I'm sorry that you and your family are going through this. Please, please take care of yourself.
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    hedonisthedonist standing on the edge of forever Posts: 24,524
    Yup, Grandmother, deadend et famille kick ass. Same sentiment as SD - take care of yourself through all of this.
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    eeriepadaveeeriepadave West Chester, PA Posts: 40,853
    wow, thoughts are with you
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    HobbesHobbes Pacific Northwest Posts: 6,383
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    PJSirenPJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
    Thank you all. I found out when I got home my uncle was arrested because he threatened the lives of like 30 people, my whole family included, so the state was building a case against him. I don't know what he'll be charged with if anything or if they just wanted to get him off the street so mamaw and keyton could get out of there safely. But they are near the airport and will get on a flight this evening back here to Oregon.

    We have a long hard road ahead of us, I know. It's going to be ok though because we have each other. Mine and my mom's and my mamaws hearts are just broken because we love my uncle so much and we just don't know how all this happened. And it hurts to find out that someone who helped raise you wants you dead now. But all that matters is getting keyton in a safe and healthy environment.

    Thank you for all your thoughts and prayers, they mean so much, just keep them coming!!! Love you guys!
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    GillycwGillycw Sydney Posts: 524
    Sending you good vibes & white light honey. So glad your granma & nephew are safe now & on their way to you. You got this xxx
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    AnnafalkAnnafalk Sweden Posts: 4,004
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    Prayers coming your way, you are in my thoughts.
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    northerndragonnortherndragon somewhere, nowhere, anywhere Posts: 9,734
    Wishing your grandma and nephew a safe flight home.
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    g under pg under p Surfing The far side of THE Sombrero Galaxy Posts: 18,122
    WOW! You are taking on a lot on your hands best wishes/prayers to you and your family well being.....also....

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    pickupyourwillpickupyourwill Posts: 3,135
    Sending out good vibes, PJ Siren. Hope everything turns out well. :)
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